Chapter 1 社交
初识
01 自我介绍
想要成为一个社交女王或者社交王子吗?快来这里让大家认识一下你吧。你是谁?你从哪里来?你的爱好是什么?这些都能让大家很快了解你并和你成为朋友。
高频口语
1 请允许我做一个自我介绍。Allow me to introduce myself.
同义表达 Let me introduce myself.
2 我的名字叫嘉丽。My name is Carrie.
同义表达 You can call me Carrie.
3 我有点内向。I'm a little introverted.
重要词汇 introverted [ˈɪntrəvɜ:tɪd] a. 内向的
4 我来自一个非常美丽的城市。I come from a very beautiful city.
重要词组 come from来自
5 我喜欢交朋友。I like to make friends.
词组释义 make friends交朋友
6我总是喜欢帮助别人。I always like to help others.
同义表达 I'm very helpful.
7我在大学主修物理。I majored in physics in college.
重要词组 major in主修
8 我最喜欢画画,其次是弹钢琴。I like painting best, followed by playing the piano.
同义表达 I like painting best, playing the piano second.
9 我热爱运动。I am passionate about sports.
重要词汇 passionate [ˈpæʃənət] a. 热烈的,激情的
10 过去我经常宅在家里。I used to stay at home.
词组释义 used to do sth过去常做某事
11 我会在周末去当地的福利院做义工。I would go to volunteer at the local welfare home at weekend.
重要词汇 volunteer [ˌvɒlənˈtɪə(r)] v. 志愿 n. 志愿者
12 名片上有我的联系方式。My business card has my contact information.
词组释义 business card名片
13 我是一个大大咧咧的人。I'm a careless man.
同义表达 I always behave carelessly.
14 我的工作是研究历史。My job is to study history.
同义表达 My work is studying history.
15 我在很多地方都旅游过。I've traveled a lot of places.
同义表达 I have a trip in many places.
16 我性格很开朗。I have a bright personality.
重要词汇 personality [ˌpɜ:səˈnælətɪ] n. 性格,人品
17 我有一个弟弟,所以我很会照顾人。I have a brother, so I'm good at taking care of others.
重要词组 take care of照顾
18 我还是单身。I'm still single.
同义表达 I'm not married.
19 我讨厌吃一些热带水果。I hate eating some tropical fruit.
重要词汇 tropical [ˈtrɒpɪkl] a. 热带的
20 我从小就开始练书法。I've been practicing calligraphy since I was a child.
重要词汇 calligraphy [kəˈlɪgrəfɪ] n. 书法
精彩对话
A: Hi. I never met you here before.
B: I just moved here. Please allow me to make a self-introduction. My name is Robert and my house is in that building.
A: What a coincidence!① My house is there, too. Everyone calls me Charles.
B: Great. I am going to visit my neighbor. Are you free tonight?
A: I'm used to②reading in the study after supper, so you can come at any time.
B: I got it. I'm an engineer and work on a construction site in the suburbs. And you? ③
A: I'm a high school teacher, teaching history.
B: No wonder you look so gentle.
A: Do you play sports?
B: I keep fit④in the gym occasionally. I rarely exercise outdoors.
A: There is a park not far from here. I always play tai chi there.
B: I'll check it out⑤sometime.
单词释义
coincidence [kəʊˈɪnsɪdəns] n. 一致,巧合
engineer [ˌendʒɪˈnɪə(r)] n. 工程师
construction [kənˈstrʌkʃn] n. 建造,建筑
suburb [ˈsʌbɜ:b] n. 郊区
推敲细节
① What a coincidence!可译为“太巧了,无巧不成书”,是一句非常实用的口语句子。其可单独使用,用作感叹句,也可以在coincidence后接不定式表示“巧合”的具体内容。
② be used to意为“习惯做某事”, to在该短语中是介词,所以其后要接动名词或名词;used to意为“过去常做某事”, to后接动词原形。要注意这两个短语的区别。
③ And you?是用来对别人的情况进行反问,通常是用在说完自己的情况之后,也可以用What about you?来表示。
④ keep fit是“保持健康,健身”的意思,也可以用另外一个短语来表示,即work out。work out除了表示“计算出来,解决”外,还有“健身”的意思。work out比keep fit更常用在口语中。
⑤ check out是一个多义词组,check sb / sth out表示对某人或某事感兴趣而“观看”;check sth out还有“调查”的意思。
译文
A:嗨,你好,我从没在这里见过你。
B:我刚搬来这里,请允许我做个自我介绍。我叫罗伯特,我家就在那栋楼里。
A:太巧了,我家也是在那栋楼里。大家都叫我查尔斯。
B:太好了,我正想去拜访一下我的邻居呢。你今晚方便吗?
A:晚饭后我习惯在书房里看书,所以你可以随时上门。
B:我知道了。我是一名工程师,在郊区的建筑工地工作。你呢?
A:我是一名中学老师,教历史的。
B:难怪你看起来很斯文。
A:你做运动吗?
B:我偶尔在健身房里健身。我很少在户外运动。
A:离这儿不远处有一个公园,我总是在那里打太极。
B:有时间我也去看看。
轻松一下
Talking Big
Three surgeon doctors are bragging about their so-called excellent medical skills.
Doctor A: I cured a man who had a broken hand and he is now a violinist.
Doctor B: It's no big deal. I've cured a man with two broken legs. He can run a marathon now.
Doctor C: You're not as good as me. In a car accident, all I had was a tyre and a pair of glasses. Now, that man is a senator.
吹牛
三个外科医生在吹嘘自己所谓的高超的医术。
医生A:我治愈了一个断了一只手的人,他现在是一个小提琴家。
医生B:那没什么大不了的。我治愈了一个断了两条腿的人,他现在都可以参加马拉松比赛了。
医生C:你们都没我厉害,在一起车祸中只剩下了一个轮胎和一副眼镜。如今,那个人是一名参议员。
文化小贴士
来到一个新的班级做一个自我介绍对每一个学生来说都是不可避免的,不同国家的学生有不同的自我介绍方式。法国的孩子在做自我介绍时通常会说“我喜欢……”,韩国的孩子在做自我介绍时通常会提及自己的家庭,而中国的孩子在做自我介绍时一般会将学校的名称加注在自己的名字之前。从这些孩子的自我介绍中我们可以得知,西方的孩子在做自我介绍时主要介绍自己的特长和爱好等,而东方的孩子,比如中国和韩国,在做自我介绍时,往往会把自己的家庭和学校等涉及社会关系的方面包含在内。不同的自我介绍方式反映出了他们对自我定义的不同,这些差异又折射出了中西方文化的不同特征。西方文化明显对独立以及个人主义更加偏爱,而东方文化讲究相互关联。这些文化特征也反映了学生们不同的学习动机。比起更加注重个人爱好的西方学生,东方的学生倾向于因为环境、家庭甚至是国家而努力学习,这也是东方学生普遍比西方学生成绩高的原因之一。但是现如今,越来越多的家长更愿意将东西方文化结合起来教育孩子,培养他们更好的品格。
02 介绍他人
你的朋友在你心目中是一个怎样的形象呢?你会向别人如何介绍你的客户呢?如何把两个陌生的人连起来呢?社交达人,快来这里展示你的能力吧。
高频口语
1 这是我未婚夫。This is my fiance.
重要词汇 fiance [fiˈɒnseɪ] n. 未婚夫
2 你能把我介绍给你的闺蜜吗?Do you want to introduce me to your best friend?
同义表达 Would you like to introduce me to your best friend?
3 他是一个非常有音乐天分的人。He is a man of great musical talent.
同义表达 He has great talent for music.
4 这是我们新来的同事,马里奥。This is our new colleague, Mario.
重要词汇 colleague [ˈkɒli:g] n. 同事
5 你想让我为你介绍一位健身教练吗?Do you want me to introduce you to a fitness instructor?
重要词汇 instructor [ɪnˈstrʌktə(r)] n. 导师,教练
6 借此机会,我让你们认识一下。I'd like to take this opportunity to give you an acquaintance.
词组释义 take the opportunity借机,利用机会
7 让我为你介绍一位精英。Let me introduce an elite to you.
重要词汇 elite [eɪˈli:t] n. 精英
8 认识他是你的荣幸。It's your pleasure to know him.
词组释义 It's your pleasure to... ……是你的荣幸
9 我已经和他结识了。I've get acquainted with him.
重要词组 get acquainted with和……结识
10 我要给你介绍一位生意伙伴。I want to introduce you to a business partner.
同义表达 I want to introduce a business partner to you.
11 我猜你们之前并不认识。I guess you didn't know each other before.
重要词汇 guess [ges] v. 猜测
12 我稍后会给你他的联系方式。I'll give you his contact details later.
词组释义 contact details联系方式
13 她是我们业务部最漂亮的秘书。She is the most beautiful secretary in our sales department.
重要词汇 secretary [ˈsekrətrɪ] n. 秘书
14 你有兴趣认识我的朋友吗?Are you interested in meeting my friend?
同义表达 Do you want to meet my friend?
15 你们有共同的爱好,你们会成为朋友的。You have the same hobby and you'll be friends.
同义表达 As you have the same hobby, you'll be friends.
16 这是来自德国的威廉先生。This is Mr. William from Germany.
同义表达 This is Mr. William who is from Germany.
17 很高兴认识你。Glad to meet you.
同义表达 Nice to meet you.
18 这是简,她的法语非常流利。This is Jane. She is very fluent in French.
重要词组 be fluent in ……流利
19 史密斯先生是到这里旅游的。Mr. Smith is here for a tour.
同义表达 Mr. Smith comes here for a tour.
20 我相信你们可以一起探讨音乐。I'm sure you can talk about music together.
重要词组 talk about谈论
21 我想结识一下你的同事。I want to get to know your colleague.
重要词组 get to know结识
22 我向你推荐一个勤奋的人。I recommend a diligent man to you.
重要词汇 diligent [ˈdɪlɪdʒənt] a. 勤奋的
23 她是我们学校的校花。She is our school beauty.
同义表达 She is the most beautiful girl in our school.
24 她很富有。She is better off.
重要词组 better off富有的
25 他是一个值得交往的人。He is worth as a friend.
同义表达 He is a person worthy of being socialized with.
精彩对话
A: Jenny, you always stay at home alone. You should often go out with your friends.
B: But I have few friends. Most of all①, I don't know how to make friends.
A: I give you best.②Well, my friend and I are having a barbecue party on the beach next week. Why don't you come?
B: I don't know your friend. I'll be embarrassed.
A: I'd like to introduce you to a friend of mine, Jack. Jack is a warm and cheerful American. He always makes everyone laugh. We all call him"pleaser". I believe he will make you change.
B: But will he be my friend?
A: You have the same hobby, that is③, playing the piano. I'm sure you will be friends. He is very helpful and that is one reason why we all like him.
B: What's he like?
A: He is a little taller than me, very white, and has brown curly hair. He is passionate about④ life and insists on⑤ visiting the old men in welfare every week.
B: Sounds like he's a great guy.
单词释义
embarrassed [ɪmˈbærəst] a. 尴尬的
cheerful [ˈtʃɪəfl] a. 愉快的
welfare [ˈwelfeə(r)] n. 福利院
推敲细节
① most of all意为“最重要的是”,类似于what's the most important,可用在句首、句中,通常不用于句末。在句中作插入语。
② I give you best在口语中有“我服了你”的意思,表示对别人的话或做的事无力反驳,有一种无奈感,有时也可以用I follow you来表示。
③ that is常用在句中,用逗号与前面和后面的内容隔开,用来对前面的内容作出解释说明,可视为一个插入语。
④ be passionate about意为“对……热情”,也可以用be enthusiastic about来表示。而passion则常和介词for连用。
⑤ insist on表示“坚持”,其后只能接名词或动名词。insist常用作不及物动词,可以接虚拟语气,也可以接陈述语气。
译文
A:珍妮,你总是自己一个人呆在家里,你应该经常和朋友出去玩。
B:可是我几乎没有朋友。最重要的是,我不知道如何交朋友。
A:我服了你了。这样吧,下周我和我的朋友要在海滩举行一个烧烤派对,你也来参加吧。
B:我不认识你的朋友,我觉得会尴尬。
A:我想给你介绍一个我的朋友,杰克。杰克是一个热情开朗的美国人,他总是能够令大家捧腹大笑。我们都叫他“开心果”。我相信他会让你改变的。
B:可是他会愿意和我做朋友吗?
A:你们有共同的爱好,就是弹钢琴。我相信你们可以成为朋友的。他非常乐于助人,这也是我们都很喜欢他的一个原因。
B:他是什么样子?
A:他比我高一点,很白,有一头棕色的卷发。他对生活很有热情,他还坚持每周去探望福利院的老人。
B:听起来他是一个很不错的人。
轻松一下
1. Things of a kind come together. 物以类聚,人以群分。
2. The friendship between gentlemen is pure like water. 君子之交淡如水。
3. If you have a true friend, he even is far away from you. 海内存知己,天涯若比邻。
4. When you meet a true friend, a thousand glasses of wine is not enough.酒逢知己千杯少。
5. A good friend is rare. 益友难得。
6. You can know your friend clearly when you are in trouble. 患难识朋友。
7. Test a friend in adversity. 在逆境中考验朋友。
8. A gentle is ready to die for his bosom friend. 士为知己者死。
文化小贴士
结识新的朋友时,中西方的人对对方的关注点不同。比如在面对一个初次见面的人时,西方人通常会说:“他(她)很帅气(漂亮)。”而中国人往往会说:“他(她)看上去很老实。”从这一点上就可以看出西方人对别人的第一印象重在外表,而中国人则更看重品格。
在向别人介绍自己的朋友时,中国人会从道德等方面来介绍,比如“他是一个好人”等。外表印象反而不是最重要的。对于西方人来说,他们在介绍一个人时,往往会把这个人的外在特征描述得很详细,如是否健谈,工作是否有能力,是否有激情等等。既然西方人很注重第一外在印象,那么在和他们打交道时就应该知道开朗外向的性格往往能促进交流和沟通。而西方人和中国人做朋友,则要了解一句话,即“路遥知马力,日久见人心”。换言之,需要长期的相处才能真正地了解对方。
03 日常问候
最温暖的话语莫不如一句简单的问候。简单的问候可以拉近我们之间的心灵距离,你,还在等什么呢?
高频口语
1 最近怎么样?How is it going?
同义表达 How is everything going?
2 你看起来心情很好。You look in a good mood.
词汇释义:be in a good moon心情好
3 你怎么样?How are you?
同义表达 Are you well?
4 我很好,谢谢你的关心。I'm fine. Thank you for your concern.
重要词汇 concern [kənˈsɜ:n] n. & v. 关心
5 有什么新鲜事吗?What's new?
同义表达 Anything new?
6 你好吗?How have you been getting along?
重要词组 get along进展,相处
7 新年快乐!Happy New Year!
同义表达 Wish you a happy New Year!
8 发生什么事了?What's the matter?
同义表达 What's up?
9 简直糟的不能再糟了。It could not be worse.
同义表达 It's too bad to be worse.
10 你最近在忙什么?What have you been up to?
重要词组 be up to忙于
11 我刚做完一个手术。I just had an operation.
重要词汇 operation [ˌɒpəˈreɪʃn] n. 操作,手术
12 最近你的宠物怎么样啊?How's your pet lately?
同义表达 How is your pet doing lately?
13 你那边怎么样?How are things going on your side?
同义表达 What about at your end?
14 你发福了吗?Did you put on your weight?
词组释义 put on weight增重
15 要是我们能聚一聚就好了。If only we could get together.
重要词组 get together聚一聚
16 嗨,你看起来很匆忙,要去哪里?Hey, you look in a hurry. Where are you going?
重要词组 in a hurry匆忙
17 我几乎认不出你了。I can hardly recognize you.
重要词汇 recognize [ˈrekəgnaɪz] v. 识别,认出
18 需要我陪你去吗?You want me to go with you?
同义表达 Do you need my company?
19 我上一次见你是三年前。The last time I saw you was three years ago.
同义表达 We haven't seen each other for three years.
20 听说你现在发展得不错。I heard you're doing well.
同义表达 I heard you have a good development.
21 祝贺你升职。Congratulations on your promotion.
重要词汇 congratulation [kənˌgrætʃʊˈleɪʃn] n. 祝贺,贺词
22 为什么不告诉我你得了绝症?Why didn't you tell me you were terminally ill?
重要词汇 terminally['tɜ:mɪnəlɪ]ad.最终地,末期
23 今天的天气很不错。It's a nice day today.
同义表达 The weather is good today.
24 你的气色真不错。You look really good.
同义表达 You look really nice.
25 你现在有空吗?Do you have spare time now?
重要词汇 spare [speə(r)] a. 多余的,空闲的
精彩对话
A: Good morning, Cathy.
B: Good morning, John.
A: You look tired. What have you been up to lately?
B: Don't mention it. ①Something is wrong with one of the projects I'm in charge of②, and I've been busy working on it lately. I haven't slept well in days. I just came out of company.
A: Work is important, but health is more important. If you go on like this, your body will break down.
B: Well, my problem at work has been solved. I have taken two days off③ and I'll have a good rest. By the way, where are you going?
A: My daughter is back from abroad. I'm going to pick her up④at the airport. What is even worse⑤, the car breaks down, so I have to take a taxi.
B: Why don't let me drive you there?
A: Come on. You'd better go home and get some rest.
B: All right. Bye.
单词释义
mention [ˈmenʃn] v. 说起,提到
charge [tʃɑ:dʒ] n. 负责,费用 v. 控诉
推敲细节
① don't mention it作“别提它”解表示对某种情况很不满或很无奈;作“别客气”解多用来对别人的感谢做出回应。
② in charge of意为“负责”,表示主动,其主语只能是人,而in the charge of意为“负责”,常用主动形式表被动,主语是事物。
③ take days off意为“休几天假”, ask for leave意为“请假”, be on leave意为“休假”。
④ pick up是一个多义短语,有“摘取,学会,捡起,接”的意思。如果pick up的宾语是人称代词,人称代词需要放在pick和up之间。
⑤ what is even worse意为“倒霉的是,更糟糕的是”,后面接一种不好的情况。在句中作插入语,用在句首或句中。
译文
A:早上好,凯西。
B:早上好,约翰。
A:你看起来很疲惫,最近在忙什么呢?
B:别提了。我负责的一个项目出了问题,我最近忙着解决这件事呢。我已经好几天没好好睡觉了。我刚从公司出来。
A:虽然工作很重要,但是身体更重要啊。你再这样下去,身体会垮掉的。
B:嗯,我工作上的问题已经解决了。我请了两天假,要好好休息一下。对了,你这是要去哪里?
A:我女儿从国外回来了,我要去机场接她。倒霉的是,家里的车坏掉了,我只好打出租车了。
B:要不然我开车带你去吧?
A:得了吧。你还是赶紧回家休息吧。
B:那好吧,再见。
轻松一下
文化小贴士
中国人和西方人在见面打招呼或寒暄等方面表现有很大的不同。首先是打招呼,中国人一般会以“吃过饭了吗?”作为常用的问候语,然后还有“去哪儿?”“最近忙什么呢?”等。这充分说明中国人倾向于表达关怀式的问候。而西方人在打招呼时,一般会说"Good morning! "和"Nice to meet you! "等。典型的西方国家,如英国,该国家的人在打招呼时经常用天气来作为话题。中国人的问候语看似有探寻别人隐私的意味,但其实并不是,而只是想借机展开话题,能够有一个顺利的谈话过程。中国人见面喜欢问“你吃过了吗?”,这在西方人看来是在变相的让对方请客吃饭,这其实是很大的误解。还有一种问候也是让西方人很费解的,即询问别人正在干的事,这会让西方人有一种明知故问的错觉。
其他场合的寒暄,比如在机场接人,中国人往往会说一句“一路辛苦了”,西方人对这种表达则会感到诧异,甚至不可思议。西方人迎接客人或朋友时,一般会说“旅途怎么样?”“欢迎到我家来。”等等。
04 久别重逢
阔别已久的朋友、恋人、亲人再次和你重逢了,你是欣喜若狂呢,还是激动不语呢?你们肯定有很多话要说,快来这里分享一下吧。
高频口语
1 没想到会在这里遇见你。I didn't expect to meet you here.
同义表达 Fancy meeting you here!
2 这些年来你去了哪里?Where have you been over the years?
同义表达 Where did you go these years?
3 好久不见了。It's been a long time.
同义表达 Long time no see.
4 你好像变化不大。It looks as if you didn't change a lot.
重要词组 as if好像
5 我过得不好不坏。I am neither good nor bad.
同义表达 I am neither better nor worse.
6 一般。It's just so so.
词组释义 just so so一般
7 我在梦中都想你。I miss you in my dreams.
同义表达 I dream of you.
8 你离开后我们就失去了联系。We lost touch after you left.
词组释义 lose touch失去联系
9 我一直期盼能够遇见你。I've been looking forward to running into you.
重要词组 run into偶遇
10 看来你的生活并不如意。It looks like your life isn't working.
同义表达 Your life doesn't look good.
11 我还是和以前一样,没什么变化。I'm still the same as usual. Nothing's changed.
重要词组 as usual像往常一样
12 能再见到你真是缘分。It's fate to see you again.
重要词汇 fate [feɪt] n. 缘分,命运
13 当初你不辞而别真是伤了我的心。You broke my heart when you left without saying goodbye.
词组释义 break one's heart让某人伤心
14 幸运的是,我们都没什么变化。Fortunately, neither of us changed.
重要词汇 fortunately[ˈfɔ:tʃənətlɪ]ad.幸运地
15 我一回来就来找你了。I came for you as soon as I got back.
同义表达 No sooner did I get back than I came for you.
16 快来拥抱一下。Come on. Give me a hug.
词组释义 give sb a hug拥抱某人
17 你怎么能忍心这么多年不回来呢?How could you bear not to come back for so many years?
同义表达 How could you not back so long?
18 让我看看你有什么变化。Let me see what you've changed.
同义表达 I'll see what you've changed.
19 老伙计,我想死你了。Dude, I miss you so much.
重要词汇 dude [du:d] n. 纨绔子弟,兄弟
20 你的气质有了很大的改变。Your temperament has changed a lot.
重要词汇 temperament [ˈtemprəmənt] n. 气质,性格
21 哈哈,你还是和以前一样有趣。Haha, you're still as interesting as ever.
重要词组 as... as和……一样
22 你过得好吗?Did you have a good time?
同义表达 How are you getting along?
23 你终于回来了。You're finally back.
同义表达 Finally you came back.
24 我迫不及待想知道你在那边怎么样。I can't wait to know how you're doing there.
词组释义 can't wait to等不及
25 你不在的日子里我很无聊。I'm bored these days when you're away.
同义表达 I feel bored these days when you're away.
精彩对话
A: Dear Jennifer, you're here. I missed you.
B: Hi, Stephen. Long time no see.① Give me a hug.
A: When did you come back?
B: I got back yesterday and I came for you as soon as I got back.
A: That's better.② We haven't seen each other for five years. You don't seem to have changed a lot. How is your life there?
B: Not bad. But I didn't adapt to③it when I just got there until a year later, and now I'm in love with it.
A: Did your husband come back with you?
B: No. He has to look after our kids. I came back for work this time, and I'm going back half a month later.
A: Dear me!④ This is not good news for me.
B: Don't worry. We have enough time to catch up.⑤How are you doing?
A: Just so so.
单词释义
hug [hʌg] n. & v. 拥抱
adapt [əˈdæpt] v. 适应
推敲细节
① Long time no see.意为“好久不见。”很像中式英语,但是也可能来源于西班牙语。常用在两个人久别重逢后。
② That's better.相当于That's more like it.主要用于对别人的做法表示感到满意,是常见的应答语。
③ adapt to意为“适应”,其后一般接环境或情况,而另一个在外形上与adapt十分相似的单词adopt则是“收养,采纳”的意思。
④ dear me意为“天哪”,主要有两种用法:一是对某种情况很惊讶(多半是不好的事情);二是作为一种对自己的失态而进行的礼貌解释。
⑤ catch up有两个意思,一是“叙旧”,主要适用于久别重逢的人;二是,“赶上”,主要是赶上工作进度之类的。catch up with也意为“赶上”,则多指的是赶上某人或赶上公交车、火车、飞机等交通工具。
译文
A:亲爱的詹妮弗,你终于回来了。我想死你了。
B:嗨,史蒂芬,好久不见。我们拥抱一下吧。
A:你什么时候回来的?
B:我昨天刚回来的,我一回来就来找你了。
A:这还差不多。我们已经五年没有见面了。你看起来没什么变化,你在那边生活得怎么样?
B:还不错。但是我刚到那里的时候并不适应那里的环境,一年以后才适应了,现在我已经爱上了那里。
A:你丈夫陪你回来的吗?
B:没有,他要在家里照顾孩子。这次我回来是为了工作,半个月后我就要回去了。
A:天哪,这对我来说可不是好消息。
B:别担心了,我们有足够的时间叙旧。你怎么样啊?
A:马马虎虎吧。
轻松一下
久别重逢意味着喜悦,也意味着物是人非。在一部经典的奥斯卡获奖电影《魂断蓝桥》中就有这一幕。芭蕾舞演员玛拉和军官战士罗伊一见钟情,但是战争的爆发让两人从此分别。玛拉一直在等待自己的爱人,却在无意间得知罗伊阵亡,失去了爱人的玛拉因为生活所迫沦为了妓女。玛拉却又在招揽客人时偶遇了罗伊,这对久别重逢的爱人互诉衷肠。
文化小贴士
和好友久别重逢时,西方人的感情会直接体现在一个拥抱上,即使是两个同性也会开心地拥抱在一起,而对于夫妻情侣来说,他们甚至会当众亲吻。这对于西方人来说是自然而然的事情。但是对于过去的中国人来说,即使再激动,见面的两个人也很少拥抱在一起,更不用说亲吻了,那在中国的传统文化里被认为是不符合体统的。这就是中西方文化的肢体语言差异。
不过,随着全球化的发展,各个国家的交流越发繁多,中西方文化渐渐融合,中国人的表达方式也越来越热烈开放,朋友见面相互拥抱,夫妻情侣重逢送上一个吻,也变得很寻常。而西方人也会受到中国传统文化的影响。